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Hold Me Accountable

 I cannot imagine a life where there is no one to speak the truth to me or offer constructive criticism to help me grow. Even more frightening is the thought of becoming alienated from God and developing a hardened conscience! So, if you love me, hold me accountable! Tell me when I am walking down the wrong path. Draw my attention to any weaknesses that could eventually become my downfall. Sometimes, we become so accustomed to our own ways that we fail to recognise the danger lurking ahead. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 14:12: “There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” — Proverbs 14:12 (KJV) As the Akans would say, the one carving out a path does not know that, behind him, there are crooked paths. What a profound reminder that we may not always see our own blind spots! Sometimes, we need someone standing on the sidelines to point out what we cannot see for ourselves. If no one can tell you the truth about yourself, or people ar...

He is always good

He Is Always Good On July 2, 2024, we were attacked by a lone armed robber. It was one of the most traumatising events we had ever experienced. He had wrestled with my mum before making his way to my room, where my daughter and I were asleep. As he ransacked our house and took everything he deemed valuable, we found ourselves in a helpless situation. We could not find the strength to fight against someone who was wielding a gun. Held at gunpoint, we were threatened with death if we made any attempt to scream or escape. In that moment of confusion and anguish, many thoughts raced through my mind. I wondered, Is this how it is all going to end? I said a prayer in my heart and expected a miracle. What if God sends His angels to rescue us? Just as He did for Peter when he was behind bars in Acts 12, or when He used four lepers to scare away the Syrian army in the face of danger in 2 Kings 7:3–20. Nothing is impossible for Him, right? He is more than able! As I pondered God's many prom...

Start Again

We are already in the ninth month, almost moving to the tenth! It’s unbelievable how quickly time is flying. At the beginning of the year, there must have been a plethora of goals and to-do lists you placed on the table. Remember that bucket list of activities you said you would accomplish? Whatever they were, life happened along the way. You may have achieved some, while others are still sitting on that list, waiting for your attention. Perhaps some life-changing events made you lose your spark, your motivation, or even your excitement for the life you envisioned. Instead of seeing it as a rerouting, you may have thrown in the towel, convinced yourself that it was the end, and slammed on the brakes. Our minds are wired around the twelve-month calendar and the timelines we set for ourselves. When we reach certain milestones, we feel proud and often don’t hesitate to share our accomplishments with the world. But the opposite can also happen. When we fail to meet our goals or timelines, ...

HOPE IN THE MIDST OF AN UNCERTAIN WORLD

With the discovery of a new COVID-19 Variant, the world is on its reels again. Countries have moved again to impose ban on travel, not only are businesses at risk but the heartbreak of being separated from loved ones. According to the Voice of America,many stocks sank on Friday amidst fears of the spread of the new variant. Is there ever an end in sight of this pandemic? Like many who are spiritual and attribute certain happenings to a being bigger than us, I have many moments lately where I reflect on my beliefs as a Christian. A facebook friend who hold dearly on his Christian faith lost his beloved wife to a respiratory illness. If he had his own way, I'm sure he would have given everything to save her. Over a month ago, we lost a colleague at work. She had gone to deliver her first child and even though she brought forth life, she lost hers- a loss we are still grieving. The world is in pain. We try to put up happy faces and run to the nearest bookshops for self-help books whic...

Let Your Words Bring Healing

Whew! It’s been a minute I wrote! I trust we are all keeping well in the midst of COVID-19. Who would have thought 2020 would come with so much drama! But in all these, the fact that we are still breathing is a good sign. It ignites some hope that this too shall pass. In the heat of this menace, we have heard countless banter between world leaders, some, not so pleasant. Others have spoken with reassurance and injected some dose of positivity into the citizenry as we fight this ailment. What about our homes? What’s happening? With the imposition of lockdowns in many countries, many are challenged to work on themselves. There have been a plethora of fun ‘challenges’ to kill boredom. Others have taken to exercises to shed of some extra pounds of flesh or gain some healthy pounds. Still, others are discovering new hobbies and making time to bond with family. For others, it is time to revive their spiritual lives and most importantly work on some habits in order to be better huma...

Prepare For The Next Season

Prepare for the next season Hello, lovely people In my last blog, I encouraged you to keep forging ahead and what a blessing the responses have been! So, we know we are not too late and that there’s still more than enough room for all of us to prosper but are we preparing for the season we have been daydreaming about? Should you land that job today, are you ready to perform it to the best of your ability? Should you meet that bae or boo of life, would you be ready to handle that season? Should you be given a 1 million USD to kick-start that business idea, would you be ready to faithfully steward it? So here’s the million-dollar question, ‘I’m I ready to walk in this new season which I’m greatly expecting’? The irony of our pursuits is that we are in a rush all the time, chasing after God knows what but we rarely have the time to prepare. It looks like preparation is alien to our ‘microwave culture’ and we would rather live for the now than put out any effort for...

You Are Not Too Late

2019 began like a minute ago! And boy are we headed to the start of another decade! I don’t know how your 2019 has been going but I know what one thing for sure; that you being able to read these words is proof that you are alive and that whatever you have set to achieve is still possible. The world seems to be running like crazy. People are busier than ever. Social media is abuzz with a zillion trend I’m still trying to catch up. Folks seem to be living their best lives and you wonder when you can also be listed on Forbes Under 30! You visit LinkedIn and everyone is graduating in the so-called big fields- from Bachelors’ to PhDs’ and what’s more, they are landing their dream jobs. We could spend donkey years drawing from these contrasts. So, this is for you who feels 2019 is fading out and you are still unemployed. It is for you who attended every relationship seminar this year and still has no one to ask,’ Babe, I just thought of you and I want to say I love...